Fishing pole--钓竿

Have an old man to go fishing in the river bank, a kid walks through to see he go fishing, old man's technique is well-learned, so snare in a little while up a full basket of fishes, the old man sees a kid lovely, send the fish of the whole basket to him, the kid shake, the old man is astonished of ask a way:Kid's answer of"do you why not want?":The "I want the fishing pole in the your hand." old man ask:The "what do you want the fishing pole to do?" kid say:"This fish finished eat in a little while, if I have fishing pole, I oneself can snare, also eat during a lifetime not over."
I miss you would certain say:The kid of good cleverness.Wrong, if he wants ～only fishing pole, that he a fish also could not eat.Because, he doesn't understand to go fishing of technique, only have fishing rod is useless, because go fishing importantly is not in "fishing pole", but in "snare a skill".
There are too many people thinking that oneself owned the fishing pole on the life way, feared to at the rains and winds of road any further, such, unavoidably will fall down in muddily up.See an old man such as the kid, think as long as have fishing pole have already eaten not over fish, be like an employee to see a boss, think as long as sit in the office, have already roll into of source of money.
有个老人在河边钓鱼，一个小孩走过去看他钓鱼，老人技巧纯熟，所以没多久就钓上了满篓的鱼，老人见小孩很可爱，要把整篓的鱼送给他，小孩摇摇头，老人惊异的问道：「你为何不要？」小孩回答：「我想要你手中的钓竿。」老人问：「你要钓竿做什么？」小孩说：「这篓鱼没多久就吃完了，要是我有钓竿，我就可以自己钓，一辈子也吃不完。」 　　
我想你一定会说：好聪明的小孩。错了，他如果只要钓竿，那他一条鱼也吃不到。因为，他不懂钓鱼的技巧，光有鱼竿是没用的，因为钓鱼重要的不在“钓竿”，而在“钓技”。 　　
有太多人认为自己拥有了人生道上的钓竿，再也无惧于路上的风雨，如此，难免会跌倒于泥泞地上。就如小孩看老人，以为只要有钓竿就有吃不完的鱼，像职员看老板，以为只要坐在办公室，就有滚进的财源。

Absolute being vestige--神迹

A strange small town in France, according to spread to have a specially efficacy spring, often appear an absolute being vestige, can cure various disease.One day, 1 walk with a cane, without a veteran of leg, a lame on lamely walking through the street on the town, the town people of flank takes to sympathetic towardly return to kiss to say:"Pitiful guy, difficult way he wants upward does the emperor pray have a leg again??" this words are retire from the army of the soldier heard and he once turned round to say to them:"I don't want upward emperor pray to contain a new leg, and want the pray he helps me, also know how to make a living after don't have a leg."
Just think:The study is the thanksgiving lose, also accept lost fact and ignore life of get with lose, always need to let from already of the life be full of clearly beautiful and brilliance, no longer in order to drop tear in the past, make great effort of live an own life.
　　法国一个偏僻的小镇，据传有一个特别灵验的水泉，常会出现神迹，可以医治各种疾病。有一天，一个拄着拐杖，少了一条腿的退伍军人，一跛一跛的走过镇上的马路，旁边的镇民带着同情的回吻说：「可怜的家伙，难道他要向上帝祈求再有一条腿吗??」这一句话被退伍的军人听到了，他转过身对他们说：「我不是要向上帝祈求有一条新的腿，而是要祈求祂帮助我，叫我没有一条腿后，也知道如何过日子。」 　　
试想：学习为所失去的感恩，也接纳失去的事实，不管人生的得与失，总是要让自已的生命充满了亮丽与光彩，不再为过去掉泪，努力的活出自己的生命。

Shark and fish--鲨鱼与鱼

Once someone once does an experiment and put the most fierce shark and a group of tropic fishes in the same of pond son, then used enhance glass partition, first, shark everyday continuously collide with that piece of glass which could not see, bear this is just bite on granite, it always can't lead opposite go to, and test personnel everyday already put some Ji fishes in the pond son, so the shark also wasn't in need of a find, just it still thoughts of opposite to go to, want try that beautiful taste, is still to continuously collide with that glass everyday, it tried each corner and is to use to make an effort each time, but also always make each time of scar clusters of, have some timeses all whole body blowout to bleed, kept on very some days, whenever once the glass appear fracture and test a personnel to plus a cake of thicker glass right away.
Afterwards, the shark no longer collided with that glass, to those rich in hues tropic fishes also no longer care and seem they are just the murals that the top of the wall will move, it starts wait for everyday fixedly would appear of Ji fish, then carry on hunting with his nimble instinct, seem to return to haughty air cruelty arrogant in sea, but all these is only false be like just, tested an end of stage, test a personnel to take away glass, but shark responded, everyday is still at fix of the district swim it not only see those tropic fishes if have no Du, even in be those Ji fishes escape that direction go to, he immediately give up to pursue, say what also don't wish again in the past, the experiment ended and test a personnel to laugh at it is the most weak in character fish of nautical mile.
But brokenhearted lead of the persons all know why, it is afraid painful
曾有人做过实验，将一只最凶猛的鲨鱼和一群热带鱼放在同一个池子，然后用强化玻璃隔开，最初，鲨鱼每天不断冲撞那块看不到的玻璃，耐何这只是徒劳，它始终不能过到对面去，而实验人员每天都有放一些鲫鱼在池子里，所以鲨鱼也没缺少猎物，只是它仍想到对面去，想尝试那美丽的滋味，每天仍是不断的冲撞那块玻璃，它试了每个角落，每次都是用尽全力，但每次也总是弄的伤痕累累，有好几次都浑身破裂出血，持续了好一些日子，每当玻璃一出现裂痕，实验人员马上加上一块更厚的玻璃。 　　
后来，鲨鱼不再冲撞那块玻璃了，对那些斑斓的热带鱼也不再在意，好像他们只是墙上会动的壁画，它开始等着每天固定会出现的鲫鱼，然后用他敏捷的本能进行狩猎，好像回到海中不可一世的凶狠霸气，但这一切只不过是假像罢了，实验到了最后的阶段，实验人员将玻璃取走，但鲨鱼却没有反应，每天仍是在固定的区域游着它不但对那些热带鱼视若无睹，甚至于当那些鲫鱼逃到那边去，他就立刻放弃追逐，说什么也不愿再过去，实验结束了，实验人员讥笑它是海里最懦弱的鱼。 　　
可是失恋过的人都知道为什么，它怕痛。

Depend on oneself--靠自己

The small snail asks a mother:We why from born, will carry on the back this hard and heavy hull?
Mother:Because the our body doesn't have prop up of skeleton, can climb, and then climb not and quickly.So want the protection of this hull!
Small snail:The caterpillar sister had backbone, also climb not and quickly, why she but need not carry on the back this hard and heavy hull?
Mother:Because the caterpillar sister can become a butterfly, the sky will protect her.
Small snail:But earthworm younger brother didn't also the bone climb not and quickly and can't become a butterfly him, either what don't carry on the back this hard and heavy hull?
Mother:Because the earthworm younger brother will drill soil, the earth will protect him.
The small snail cried to get up:We are so pitiful, the sky doesn't protect, and the earth also doesn't protect.
The snail mother comforts him:"So we have hull!"
We without resort to a day, also without resort to ground and we depend on oneself
　　小蜗牛问妈妈：为什么我们从生下来，就要背负这个又硬又重的壳呢？ 　　
妈妈：因为我们的身体没有骨骼的支撑，只能爬，又爬不快。所以要这个壳的保护！
　 小蜗牛：毛虫姊姊没有骨头，也爬不快，为什么她却不用背这个又硬又重的壳呢？ 　
　妈妈：因为毛虫姊姊能变成蝴蝶，天空会保护她啊。 　　
小蜗牛：可是蚯蚓弟弟也没骨头爬不快，也不会变成蝴蝶他什么不背这个又硬又重的壳呢？
　 妈妈：因为蚯蚓弟弟会钻土,大地会保护他啊。 　　
小蜗牛哭了起来：我们好可怜，天空不保护，大地也不保护。 　　
蜗牛妈妈安慰他：「所以我们有壳啊！」 　　
我们不靠天，也不靠地，我们靠自己。

Tolerate--宽容

A piggy, a sheep and a head of milk cow is closed in the same of corral.Once, the shepherd caught piggy and it louldly shout and fierecely resisted.Sheep and milk cow dislike that shout and then say:"He usually catches us, we don't loudly screaming.The piggy listenned to an answer way:"Catch you and catch me completely is a different thing, he catches you and just want your hairs and human milk, but catch me, but want my life!
Position dissimilarity, place person with different environment, the feeling of very difficult understanding the other party;Therefore to other people of disappointed, frustrate, distress, should not gloat over the disaster of others, but should be relevant bosom, understanding of mood.Have to have tolerant heart!
　　一只小猪、一只绵羊和一头乳牛，被关在同一个畜栏里。有一次，牧人捉住小猪，牠大声号叫，猛烈地抗拒。绵羊和乳牛讨厌牠的号叫，便说：「他常常捉我们，我们并不大呼小叫。小猪听了回答道：「捉你们和捉我完全是两回事，他捉你们，只是要你们的毛和乳汁，但是捉住我，却是要我的命呢! 　　
立场不同、所处环境不同的人，很难了解对方的感受；因此对别人的失意、挫折、伤痛，不宜幸灾乐祸，而应要有关怀、了解的心情。要有宽容的心！